14 Feb Book Review: The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky

I recently revisited The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky, a novel that holds a special place in my heart. I first read it during my own high school years, and it resonated deeply with me then. Now, years later, I was curious to see how it would impact me as an adult.

What’s it about?

Set in the early 1990s, the story is presented through a series of letters written by Charlie, a 15-year-old high school freshman, to an anonymous recipient he calls “Dear Friend.” Charlie is introspective and observant, yet struggles with participating actively in life, often finding himself on the sidelines—a true “wallflower.”

As the school year unfolds, Charlie befriends two seniors, Patrick and his stepsister Sam, who introduce him to a world of new experiences, including parties, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, and the complexities of teenage relationships. Charlie develops a deep crush on Sam, but is aware of the boundaries of their friendship.

Throughout the narrative, Charlie grapples with personal challenges, including the recent suicide of his middle-school friend Michael and the haunting memories of his Aunt Helen, who died in a car accident on his seventh birthday. His English teacher, Bill, recognizes Charlie’s literary talent and provides him with advanced reading assignments, fostering his love for literature.

As Charlie becomes more entwined with his new friends, he is exposed to the trials and tribulations of adolescence—experimenting with drugs and alcohol, exploring his sexuality, and confronting the realities of love and loss. He also witnesses Patrick’s secret relationship with Brad, a closeted football player, and supports his sister through an abusive relationship and an unplanned pregnancy.

The novel delves into deeper themes as Charlie’s repressed memories surface, revealing past traumas that have shaped his emotional landscape. Through his letters, Charlie seeks understanding and connection, ultimately striving to “participate” in life rather than remain a passive observer.

What This Chick Thinks

Revisiting The Perks of Being a Wallflower was like catching up with an old friend. Chbosky’s writing captures the essence of teenage angst and the longing for connection. Charlie’s voice is authentic and raw, making his journey both heart-wrenching and uplifting.

The characters are richly developed, each grappling with their own struggles, yet finding solace in their shared experiences. Sam and Patrick serve as catalysts for Charlie’s growth, challenging him to step outside his comfort zone and embrace the complexities of life.

The novel doesn’t shy away from heavy topics—mental health, abuse, sexuality—but addresses them with sensitivity and nuance. Charlie’s introspection offers profound insights into the human condition, making readers reflect on their own journeys.

However, some may find the epistolary format limiting, as it confines the narrative to Charlie’s perspective. Yet, this intimate glimpse into his mind is what makes the story so compelling.

Final Thoughts

The Perks of Being a Wallflower remains a poignant exploration of adolescence, friendship, and self-discovery. It’s a timeless reminder of the importance of embracing life’s highs and lows and the value of genuine human connection. I’d rate it a solid 9 out of 10 for its enduring impact and emotional depth.

Try it if you like:

• “Looking for Alaska” by John Green
  A thought-provoking novel that delves into the complexities of teenage life, love, and loss.
• “Speak” by Laurie Halse Anderson
  A powerful narrative about a high school freshman dealing with trauma and finding her voice.
• “Eleanor & Park” by Rainbow Rowell
  A heartfelt story of two misfit teens who find love and solace in each other amidst life’s challenges.